A nyone else out there a control freak? What is the right balance between taking charge and surrendering? Yes there are things we can’t control in life but there are lots that we can. I believe we must do our part and the universe/ life will do theirs.
But we must still give our absolute best, and so far, this philosophy has helped me get all the things I really wanted/ wished for. No, my life isn’t perfect and there is plenty I still want but I have gotten here with a combination of hard work and yes, I have also been very fortunate.
I don’t see trying to control things or being responsible as unrealistic, I really think life is about personal growth and to grow you must learn, try, fail, try again, but always giving your best (especially if want to speed up the process a bit). But I do also practice meditation to remind me that I’m not in control of everything, that I must always adapt to new situations and adjust at every step. Those things come to me as challenges but all part of the process. Anyway, it’s a weird post today.
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