I have been married for 8 years and finding the time to go out on a date with my husband has always been a challenge. Life just takes over and when you realize the time passes and you didn't do it. This year we decided to put more effort. Now that I'm not traveling for work we can actually do it. This month we went bowling. I know so simple but we haven't actually gone bowling in 7 years! When the time to go came, we almost made up an excuse. We were both so tired and just wanted to relax at home but we pushed through and ended up having so much fun! And that's the difference when you are married, you can just relax on the couch together. When you are just dating and don't live together, seeing each other is already a reason to go out, but when you don't have to, than you actually need to make a plan. We got horrible scores even though a few strikes did happen and I was surprise by how competitive I felt, haha! Next month, it's my husband's turn to plan the date, so we will see what he comes up with.